Anal intercourse is very erotic for many people, both men and women. There are many nerve endings in the rectum, particularly around the opening of the anus, that a lot of people find pleasurable when stimulated. Men often love the super tightness of a woman’s anus. Anal engage in - whether you’re having anal sexual intercourse or using a toy or your fingers - can be intensely intimate. The taboo of enjoying a so-called ‘prohibited’ activity with your partner can be super exciting and just what you need to turn up the heat in your intercourse life! There are, however, a few guidelines that should be followed for anal sexual intercourse to make both you and your partner safe and comfortable!
Don’t Skimp On The Lube
The anus does not naturally lubricate itself at all, therefore, it is an absolute must to use a good water based or silicone based lubricant during anal sex. While you don’t want to use silicone based lube in the vagina because it’s difficult to clean out, silicone lube will get flushed out with everything else when you go to the bathroom so feel free to use it for anal sex. Don’t ever attempt to have anal intercourse without lube, because you could easily tear something on the outside or even the inside, which would require a not so fun trip to the hospital. Also, do not use numbing or desensitizing lubricant, because if it hurts, you need to feel it and you need to stop! Just use lots and lots of regular water or silicone based lube for any kind of anal engage in.
Learn To Relax!
If you’re not able to relax when you have anal intercourse, you’re going to find it very uncomfortable or painful. Practice relaxing your anus around a small anal sexual intercourse toy or a finger and work your way up to the bigger stuff. You certainly can’t expect yourself to accomodate a large intercourse toy or penis if you’ve never tried anal intercourse before, but if you learn to relax during anal perform, you’ll gradually get to where you can take more and enjoy more. Strap-on dildo sex toys can be used as a vaginal or anal sex toy and come in a range of sizes to accommodate beginners and experts alike.
Keep Things Clean
Since going through the backdoor will potentially (probably) get you at least a little dirty, it’s very important to keep things clean. Clean any and all sex toys used for anal play with hot, soapy water or special intercourse toy cleaner and wear a condom when inserting the penis into the anus. Wearing a condom during anal sexual intercourse will allow you to slip it off and go straight to vaginal sexual intercourse without worrying about bacteria spreading. If you don’t want to wear a condom during anal intercourse, you will need to wash your penis thoroughly with warm, soapy water. Neglecting to keep things clean during sexual intercourse will increase the risk of spreading bacteria and giving your partner an infection. You will feel a real wet pussy with lubricant joining when you twitch the fleshlight.